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Archive for the Divorce Category
Is the men’s movement missing the boat? — Part 1
April 6, 2011 by Walter Schneider.
What is the men’s movement (MM) trying to achieve? That is a bit hard for anyone to determine. It seems that after decades of the existence of the men’s movement, no unified aim or objective for the men’s movement has emerged. There is nothing the main stream media (MSM) has picked up and consistently presents to the public as the major goal of the men’s movement.
The MSM had no trouble picking up and popularizing women’s causes when the long-simmering radical feminism came to the fore in he 1960s and became the dominant and controlling force not only of feminism but of politics. Then it was that one could not avoid images (real or mental) of bra-burners, sex-discrimination that allegedly kept women down, pay-discrimination that had women do men’s work for half the pay men were allegedly earning for similar work, and so on. The MSM had no trouble to present such images on the tapestry it wove according to the feminist design:
- “The dreaded patriarchy oppressed women throughout the millennia.”
- “Women are good. Men are bad.”
- “The family is a patriarchal tool for the oppression of women.”
- “Logic is patriarchal linear thinking.”
- “There is no job that a man does that a woman cannot do better.”
- “A woman’s body — A woman’s right”
Lapel buttons displaying the slogan “WHY NOT?” became very popular. The MSM, aided from within by increasing numbers of women journalists indoctrinated through women’s studies programs taught by feminist lecturers who openly declared themselves to be Marxist-feminists, helped things along, while politicians fell over themselves to give “women” most of what they wanted as soon as women’s groups asked for it.
Women’s studies programs emerged in virtually all colleges and universities of the developed nations and usurped much of the funding formerly lavished on male-dominated sports programs. More and more all-male institutions, even locker rooms, were invaded by women and even abolished, if so demanded, while women’s institutions and clubs remained pristine, if not necessarily feminine, unspoiled by the presence of any man — unless he was someone like a plumber needed to get a toilet going.
Government women’s departments sprouted up like mushrooms after a warm rain in summer in all developed nations. In some countries (e. g.: Canada) they were given names that brazenly declared their Marxist origin: Status of Women. Still, whether or not they gave away their ideological roots through their names, the feminists that ran them and whom they employed had no problem with openly declaring their Marxist intentions.
New family legislation hostile to fathers emerged and was soon applied through a novel branch of the judiciary, the family-court system, and civilization soon had to cope with the fall-out from that: men and fathers expunged in unprecedented, escalating numbers from their families, losing contact with their children Lawyers and judges experienced a boom of cases where men tried to regain (quite often unsuccessfully) some of the contact with and influence over their children, and where women tried (almost invariably successfully) to get men to pay for the sin of having dared to be fathers –with the aim to keep women in the style they had become accustomed to while their marriages were still intact.
Incredibly, the excesses of the feminist revolution in relation to expunged fathers were invariably justified by liberal doses of the application of the slogan: “In the best interest of child.”
The rout of the dreaded patriarchy was complete.
Right from the start of the feminist revolution a so-called men’s movement made itself known, but also right from the start it became obvious that men, the patriarchal oppressors of women, would never be able to gain as much sympathy and compassion as women did. The MM floundered and many attempts to launch it successfully foundered. Quite simply, men were bowled over because women make more appealing victims.
Men, divorced men, and especially fathers expunged from their families, have well-justified grievances, but the well-deserved respect and appreciation that western civilization once had for men appears to be gone for good. Feminist logic and women’s way of knowing have done their work, but, as the saying goes, women’s work is never done, and the persecution of men continues.
The persecution of men that started with the radical-feminist revolution in the West is alive and well and is being spread through feminist missionary work into developing and underdeveloped nations throughout the world.
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Part 2 will follow.
Posted in Education, Men and Women Work, Paternal Rights, Civil Rights, Divorce, Men's Issues, Feminism, Feminist Jurisprudence, Family, The New World Order | Print | 2 Comments »
U.K.: Shout at spouse, lose the house
February 2, 2011 by Walter Schneider.
If you are a man and are married, live with a spouse or contemplate marriage, you better have a good look at the ruling by the British High Court.
Fathers & Families
British High Court Expands ‘Domestic Violence’ to Include Shouting and Criticizing
January 27th, 2011 by Robert Franklin, Esq.
It’s hard to overstate the reach of the British Supreme Court’s ruling in this case (Daily Mail, 1/27/11). It was decided on Thursday and from that date all aspects of domestic violence law have been completely changed….
Seventh, let no one be deceived into believing that this ruling will be applied in a gender-neutral way. Domestic violence law hasn’t been to date and this ruling will be more of the same. For over four decades, men and fathers have been demonized in law, education and popular culture. The result is that, when women bring a claim of domestic violence, they are often believed whether they back up their claims with objective evidence or not. Men, having been demonized, get no such privilege. So the consequences of this ruling will be sexist, overwhelmingly used by women at the expense of men.
Don’t believe me? Just look at the photo in the linked-to article. Who’s depicted shouting?….(Full Story)
h/t Roger Eldridge
Robert Franklin concludes his article by stating, “If Parliament fails to immediately correct this travesty of “justice,” the consequences to British society will be incalculable.”
That, of course, will not happen, therefore the damage will be incalculable. If you wonder why that is so, then you are part of the problem.
At any rate, the article describes nothing other than feminist jurisprudence in action. Feminist jurisprudence is driven by misandry and enables women to commit violence by proxy without having to soil their hands and without having to exert themselves in any other fashion.
Posted in Paternal Rights, Civil Rights, Judiciary, Violence by Proxy, Social-Destruction Enterprise, Divorce, The New World Order, Feminist Jurisprudence, Men's Issues, Women's Violence | Print | No Comments »
Men’s activism — Men’s power
January 9, 2011 by Walter Schneider.
A lot of mail comes my way each day. In many of my responses I recommend to read certain books. The reason why I do that is because I get the impression that those to whom I recommend those books don’t have a clue that they exist.
About ten years ago or even earlier, that was hardly ever necessary. Men’s rights activists, then, knew the authors whose books I must now point to because many of today’s activists need to be told about those books , that they need to be read and learned from.
I don’t know why that is, although we could all speculate a lot about how anyone can possibly know much about men’s rights activism without knowing the basics of what to be active about. Here (in no particular order) are links to information on some books that are essential reading for anyone who is or claims to be a men’s rights activist:
- The Myth of Male Power: Why Men Are the Disposable Sex, by Warren Farrell
You don’t like reading? Here is a link to the first part of an audio series on The Myth of Male Power - The Manipulated Man, by Esther Vilar
- The Case for Father Custody, by Daniel Amneus
- Taken into Custody: The War Against Fatherhood, Marriage, and the Family, by Stephen Baskerville
- Save the Males, By Richard Doyle
- And again. for those who don’t like to read, an excellent series of videos: Man Woman & Myth
Feel free to add to the list, but stick to the blog rules.
Posted in Education, Social-Destruction Enterprise, Civil Rights, Economy, Divorce, Men's Issues, Propaganda Exposed, Feminism, Feminist Jurisprudence, The New World Order | Print | No Comments »
She does the crime, he does the time
December 28, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
…at least that is the intention of Oakland County Assistant Prosecutor Sydney Turner.
Sidney Morning Herald
December 28, 2010 - 8:58AMHusband charged after discovering wife’s affair by reading her emails on shared computer
A US man who says he learned of his wife’s affair by reading her e-mail on their computer faces trial on felony computer misuse charges….(Full Story)
Posted in Civil Rights, Divorce, Feminist Jurisprudence, Feminism | Print | 1 Comment »
The divorce from hell?
December 24, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
It reads more like one hell of a divorce.
…Catherine once tried to run over Larry with a van. “This is always a telltale sign that a husband and wife are drifting apart,” Judge Quinn remarked dryly.
No kidding…, but there is much more in the article.
Toronto Globe and Mail
December 16, 2010
In family court, a judge turns to ridicule to defuse the rage
By KIRK MAKIN
A feuding couple and their ‘high-octane hatred’ prompt a highly unusual judicial roasting
In a novel twist, Judge Quinn granted the wife, Catherine, sole custody of the feuding couple’s 13-year-old daughter. However, he ordered Larry to pay Catherine just a dollar a month in spousal support.
That appears to have been a good decision, as the daughter seems to have become alienated beyond repair against her dad. However, although the article identifies a-dollar-a-month in spousal support for the ex-wife, nothing is mentioned about how much child support the father will have to pay for kids he no longer will be able to see.
Besides, will all of the actors in the drama have seen the last of the case? Surely there is nothing preventing someone from launching an appeal. You want to take bets on who will launch one of those?
At any rate, you will want to watch this video:
Parental Alienation ~ Emotional Kidnapping
Listen well to what Alec Baldwin says as he is being interviewed in the third video in the series. It shows how hard it is even for men who were put through the parental-alienation grinder to get away from preconception and perhaps even all-out indoctrination about men’s paternal rights.
At minute 2:22, Alec Baldwin states that men have to earn 50:50 custody. Why would that not be true of women?
At minute 3:12 Alec Baldwin mentions that he has no respect for men who abuse women and fight for custody to gain power, out of spite and for no other reason than to hurt women. Well, why does that not cut both ways?
The point that one needs to pay attention to is that if not even the target in a case of parental alienation feels that equal rights come into the picture when awarding equally or equitably shared parenting, then why would he expect the judges to have more objectivity than such a victimized father does?
Posted in Parental Alienation, Child Abuse, Child Support, Judiciary, Child-Custody Awards, Divorce, The New World Order | Print | 1 Comment »
Children of divorce more prone to strokes as adults: Study
November 23, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
Thanks to Gord Balik:
Canada.com
By Sharon Kirkey, Postmedia News November 22, 2010 Comments (3)
Divorcing parents usually worry about the long-term emotional impact their split could have on the kids, but new research suggests there may be a physical fallout, too.
The Canadian research suggests the children of divorce may be at a higher risk of stroke in their own adult years.
Based on more than 13,000 adults living in Manitoba and Saskatchewan, the research has found that those whose parents divorced when they were children had twice the odds of having a stroke at some time in their lives, a finding that held after researchers controlled for numerous known risk factors for stroke…..(Full Story)
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Note by F4L: For interest’s sake, children of divorce are affected to virtually identical extents by other negative outcomes of divorce. Here is what StatCan has to say:
WHAT WE KNOW ABOUT CHILDREN FROM SINGLE-MOTHER FAMILIES
Mind you, the issue of negative outcomes in children of divorce it not merely a Canadian, national problem, it is universal. A variety of negative outcomes affect children wherever their parents separate and divorce:
Children of Divorce & Separation — Statistics
Posted in Child Abuse, Single-Parent, Civil Rights, Social-Destruction Enterprise, Health, Divorce, The New World Order | Print | No Comments »
The new stigma for children of divorce
November 17, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
Huffington Post
16 November 2010
The New Stigma - Children of Divorce Are No Longer Stigmatized, Until They Start Dating
By Elizabeth Marquardt
A young man says, “When I go out with a woman I can always tell on the
first date if she’s from a divorced family. The women from divorced
families are over-anxious, eager to please. They’re exhausting.”
A young woman says, “My parents have been married thirty-five years and I
want a long marriage like they’ve had. I love my boyfriend, but he’s from a
divorced family and, I don’t know, it just seems like he had to be a lot
more independent growing up than I ever was. Frankly, it worries me.”….(Full Story)
Posted in Marriage, Divorce | Print | No Comments »
LexisNexis contacted Fathers for Life
November 4, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
Just about every day I find in our in-box several e-mail messages with link-exchange requests by organizations who wish to advertise the services of lawyers and law firms, at the website of Fathers for Life, for free, so that they can explore and exploit untapped market potential and opportunities.
The legal industry saturated the market and is limited only by the capability of potential legal clients to pay for legal services. Although until not all that long ago the legal profession was a growth industry and primarily divorce and related litigation still is a fertile and lucrative feeding ground for established members of the legal profession, new, young lawyers entering the market find that the road to success is a steep one to climb, that the going is hard, and that it is becoming increasingly more difficult to succeed with recovering even their initial capital outlay and the debts they incurred to be able to set out on the road to the more and more elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
Today I received a request by LexisNexis, the provider of [legal library services and pointers to legal help (2011 03 09 –WHS)]. It is not a link-exchange request, not at first glance, for which reason I did not dismiss it out of hand but responded to it. Here it is (and my response):
On 04/11/2010 1:18 PM, …Jeanine (LNG-CON) wrote:
Re: Free Legal Resources from LexisNexis
Hi,
I am reaching out to you on behalf of LexisNexis Martindale-Hubbell regarding the following page: http://fathersforlife.org/fatherhood/paternity_fraud_compensation.htm
LexisNexis has free educational resources to share with your school. We would like to provide you with a link so that your students can access this information.
Does this seem like something you would be interested in, or would you be able to put me in touch with someone that is responsible for adding resources and updates to the site?
I look forward to hearing back from you!
Thanks!
–Jeanine
To which I responded:
Hello Jeanine,
Thanks for writing. You have come to the right party.
It seems to me that I have an idea on what you intend to offer, but if it involves money for subscriptions to [legal libraries] or other legal services that will have to be purchased, then we cannot become involved. Nor will we advertise any legal services, not as long as those services require subscription fees for those most in need of free access to those services.
Those in need would be expunged fathers whose wages have been garnished and whose professional and government-issued licences were cancelled or revoked, whereby they are deprived of any means to make a living and help them get out the hole hole feminist jurisprudence put them in, by preventing them even from being able to obtain legal assistance in the courts.
However, if you wrote to offer free access to [legal library] services to those in need of them, then all of the concerns I outlined would be unfounded. I merely mentioned those concerns to possibly save you the trouble of having to write with further details of your offer and having me respond along the lines of the concerns outlined above.
My perceptions may be wrong (they were correct on prior occasions) and my misgivings could therefore be out of place. In that case I apologize and will be willing to pay full attention to further details regarding your intentions in relation to how the website of Fathers for Life can become a better tool for the benefit of those in great need of it.
An aside: You did not identify how or why you searched the website of Fathers for Life to enable you to find the web page that comments on the circumstances of compensation for paternity fraud. The results for such a search would be incomplete if they were not to include also web pages such as the one at http://fathersforlife.org/Sodhi/YWCA_2001.htm, [The legal-library service] Quicklaw is mentioned there, but the reference is not a link).
Regards,
Walter Schneider.
Stay tuned to find out what will develop next.
Note 2011 03 09: Made edits to text, to remove or clarify references to Quicklaw, as required. –WHS
Posted in Economy, False Allegations, Child Abuse, Civil Rights, Divorce, Feminist Jurisprudence, Men's Issues, Paternity Fraud | Print | 3 Comments »
Man Woman & Myth
October 31, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
Many thanks to George Rolph for pointing me to this.
Truth, Lies and the War on Men
The website identified by the preceding link is one of the most important ones I have come across in decades. It answers the concerns of many men’s and fathers rights activists who wrote to me over the years and expressed the wish for a video lectures series on men’s and fathers’ issues.
Well, the video project by Man Woman & Myth is the answer they sought and to which many of them through their efforts tried to contribute more or less successfully.
About the Video Project
The Project
A documentary series, 7 years in the making, exploring all aspects of male-female relations from a man’s point-of-view. Looks at the various reasons behind the negative treatment of men in Western society, including the root cause: Feminism.
Consists of 49 short films on Feminism, Misandry, Equality, Domestic Violence and Education as well as Family issues like Paternity Fraud, Fatherlessness and Reproductive Rights.
As of now I have only been able to quickly browse the website and looked at no more than a quick sample of the 49 videos that are available there. I am amazed at what has been put together.
I will watch all of the videos in the coming weeks and try to give that top priority. As I go along with that, I will report on what I find. It is quite obvious already that not many words at the website are wasted and that all of them are intended to mean what they say.
The first lesson I learned is that the website owner means everything he states in his “Notes on the Video”. Read all of the notes. Just as there is no way you can take in all of what the 49 videos present without watching all of them, so you will not be able to successfully understand the problems you may encounter in downloading, file-sharing or watching the videos without reading all of the notes.
As of now, my first impression is, Wow! The Man Woman & Myth video project either used the website of Fathers for Life to develop its scripts or it took its guidance from some of the same sources that guided me and the contributors to Fathers for Life over the years. The video-project leader quite rightly states:
As a result of years of feminised programming, any film like the ones found here will be a bit like a bucket of cold water in the face in terms of the presentation of what I see as basic reality. Many people will not be used to this degree of forthrightness and honesty and some may be a little shocked.
That is absolutely no exaggeration, at best an understatement, and it is no wonder. Look at the individuals that were interviewed and whose views are being presented:
Principal Interviewees
- Angry Harry
Psychologist and prominent Men’s Rights activist, angryharry.com.
- Erin Pizzey
Author and Domestic Violence expert. Opened the world’s first domestic violence shelter in London and is a patron of the Mankind Initiative Men’s Charity. Author of the book “Prone to Violence”.
- Stephen Fitzgerald
Former Director and National Organiser of the Mankind Initiative Men’s Charity.
- Michele Elliott
Founder and Director of Kidscape, a children’s charity, and author of the book “Female Sexual Abuse of Children”.
- Oliver Curry
Evolutionary Psychologist at the London School of Economics and contributing author to Demos, the independent think tank and research institute.
- Professor Colin Francome
Professor Emeritus of Medical Sociology, Middlesex University. Author of the book “Improving Men’s Health”.
Alright. That is all I can say for now. I will be back about this and present more of my impressions as time goes on. I hope that if you watch any of the videos, and you absolutely should, you will be able to post a comment here.
Posted in Civil Rights, Paternal Rights, Social-Destruction Enterprise, Media Bias, Maternal Rights, Parental Alienation, Child Abuse, Violence by Proxy, False Allegations, Men and Women Work, Education, Feminism, Propaganda Exposed, The New World Order, Women's Violence, Feminist Jurisprudence, Family, Divorce, Health, Men's Issues, Paternity Fraud | Print | No Comments »
Belfort Bax on jurisprudence and men’s issues
October 25, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
Just in case you never read anything about or by Belfort Bax, here are important links of interest to anyone who wishes to know more about feminism.
The social revolution that began in the 1960s and with the credit for which second-wave-feminism adorns itself is nothing new. It is the final stage of a social revolution that is a continuation of a trend made possible through the chivalry by “men” of the Victorian age (politicians, judges, lawyers, writers and journalists) who did their best to give women — in the name of liberating them from male oppression — more and more privileges at the expense of common men. In that fashion The Fraud of Feminism (1913, by Belfort Bax) has been at work already for hundreds of years to bring about The Legal Subjection of Men (1908, by Belfort Bax). (From: Feminist family politics and their roots in communist ideology)
The Fraud of Feminism and The Legal Subjection of Men are archived web pages and can be somewhat slow to load, but both are worth the wait if waiting should be necessary.
Posted in Paternal Rights, Civil Rights, Maternal Rights, Violence by Proxy, Divorce, Men's Issues, The New World Order, Feminism, Feminist Jurisprudence, Women's Violence | Print | 1 Comment »