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On-going custody battle
April 5, 2010 by Walter Schneider.
Today a deserted and frustrated father wrote to me about his on-going attempts to follow his ex for thousands of miles, so as to be able to continue to play a role in his daughters’ life.
While the man was involved in custody hearings in a province in Central-Canada, his ex-common-law-wife had moved to a city in Western Canada.
Here is my response.
Hello Bill (not the real name),
As I read your account, the first thing that came to my mind is that you described a case of parental kidnapping. Of course, I have no way of knowing whether a visitation agreement was in place then (you stated that you were fighting for one) and whether the visitation order included a provision for prohibiting one or the other parent from moving away from the other, beyond a specified distance or travelling time.
I am getting a bit too old for all of this (I am 73), but it appears that you are quite right, you need to get in touch with people in your locality. There used to be about three organizations in Calgary that were active, but lately I have not heard much from or about them (MESA, Family of Men and ECMAS).
Here is the latest list I know that contains links to Alberta organizations, some of whom are located in Calgary.
From that:
Alberta
Fathers For Life (ours, near Edmonton)
Family of Men Support Society (Calgary)
Men’s Educational Support Association (M.E.S.A.) (Calgary)
Movement for the Establishment of Real Gender Equality (M.E.R.G.E.) (Edmonton, but that organization focuses primarily on equitable “gender” rights for all seven “genders”)
Orphaned Grandparents Association Resource Centre (near Edmonton, as far as I know)
The Equitable Child Maintenance and Access Society (E.C.M.A.S.) (Edmonton chapter; the founder was the same as that for MERGE; there was once a separate Calgary chapter that formed a separate organization under the same name after a rift with the Edmonton chapter had developed)
A few observations on Fathers Rights or Parenting Rights organizations
There are close to 50,000 active case files that are being held by Alberta Maintenance Enforcement. Roughly one-third of those involves cases in the Calgary area, another third involves cases in the Edmonton area, and the remaining third involves the rest of the province.
I have been actively involved with fathers rights since about 1990, which led me in about 1994 to begin with the website Fathers for Life.
Right from the start I noticed that there was hardly ever more than about a dozen or a little more of truly active fathers rights activists in Alberta. The largest public demonstrations that were ever held (in one case a picketing action in front of Anne McLellan’s constituency office) mustered no more than about 60 picketers from a large variety of organizations of whom some only remotely ever worried about fathers rights.
It can be argued that personal agendas and lack of charisma of the leaders led to low membership numbers of various Fathers Rights or Parenting Rights organizations, but it would be wrong to put too much blame in that respect on the leaders of such organizations.
The problem is universal. It applies in all major Canadian cities and in all provinces across Canada. The apathy exists as well in all of North America and throughout all of the developed nations. Increasingly, the general apathy emerges in the developing nations.
It may be looked at as battle fatigue by people who wish to uphold family values in a culture that actively promotes an all-out war against the family; there is that and much more involved. The website of Fathers for Life extensively explores the concept of the war against the family and related concepts that apply.
The fact remains that not only active participants and victims of judicial persecution such as you are largely apathetic, but that the general public is apathetic as well. There is not a ground-swell of support for the family. The lack of public support means that politicians do not have to give pro-family sentiments a great deal of attention, which is the major reason why for every dollar of funding for programs and actions in support of the family there are about a thousand dollars of funding to sponsor programs and actions that aim at dismantling and systematically deconstructing the institution of the traditional nuclear family.
Given the lack of concern by politicians, a plethora of government agencies has a free hand to pursue its family-hostile aims. Those aims — let there be no mistake about it — strongly lean toward the extreme radical left. Their leanings are strongly Marxist. Marxism has throughout its existence been strongly anti-family. That is not too surprising, as the historical roots of Marxism (an age-old yearning toward Paradise on Earth, that is, a socialist Utopia) have always been strongly anti-family. Socialism, especially in totalitarian socialist regimes throughout history aimed at best at strong state-control of the family and at worst at the total abolition of the family.
Igor Shafarevich, a world-renowned mathematician and a contemporary of Alexander Solzhenitsyn expressed those ideas best, in his book The Socialist Phenomenon.
It would seem that socialist ideology has the ability to stamp widely separated or even historically unlinked socialist currents with indelible and stereotyped markings.
It seems to us quite legitimate to conclude that socialism does exist as a unified historical phenomenon. Its basic principles have been indicated above. They are:
- Abolition of private property.
- Abolition of the family.
- Abolition of religion.
- Equality, abolition of hierarchies in society.
The manifold embodiments of these principles are linked organically by a common spirit, by an identity of specific details and, frequently, by a clearly discernible overall thrust.
Our perspective on socialism takes into account only one of the dimensions in which this phenomenon unfolds. Socialism is not only an abstract ideological system but also the embodiment of that system in time and space. Therefore, having sketched in its outlines as an ideology, we now ought to be able to explain in what periods and within what civilization socialism arises, whether in the form of doctrine, popular movement or state structure. But here the answer turns out to be far less clear. While the ideology of socialism is sharply defined, the occurrence of socialism can hardly be linked to any definite time or civilization. If we consider the period in the history of mankind which followed the rise of the state as an institution, we find the manifestations of socialism, practically speaking, in all epochs and in all civilizations. It is possible, however, to identify epochs when socialist ideology manifests itself with particular intensity. This is usually at a turning point in history, a crisis such as the period of the Reformation or our own age. We could simply note that socialist states arise only in definite historical situations, or we could attempt to explain why it was that the socialist ideology appeared in virtually finished and complete form in Plato’s time. We shall return to these questions later. But in European history, we cannot point to a single period when socialist teachings were not extant in one form or another. It seems that socialism is a constant factor in human history, at least in the period following the rise of the state. Without attempting to evaluate it for the time being, we must recognize socialism as one of the most powerful and universal forces active in a field where history is played out.
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Igor Shafarevich
The Socialist Phenomenon, [7] p. 200
All of that is a lot of information you did not ask for. However, I feel that the best service I can provide for you is to put your personal experiences regarding the futility of your attempts to enforce your paternal “rights” into the context of the history of the social evolution and the apparent current decline of civilization.
Posted in Paternal Rights, Civil Rights, Judiciary, Social-Destruction Enterprise, Child-Custody Awards, The New World Order, Feminist Jurisprudence, Child Abduction | Print | 1 Comment »
Scotland - Children’s Rights Demo - 2009 03 04
January 31, 2009 by Walter Schneider.
(Update 2009 02 02: Note that the date and time for the Children’s Rights Demonstration have been changed to March 4, 2009, 11:00 a.m.)
Demonstration protesting against Social services (SS). Adopting children to strangers when grandparents and extended family with a little help could have coped adequately, keeping children in a stable home environment.
A foreign national left this on the Daily Mail comments section.
“…what is wrong with you people in this country that you allow your government to get away with this?”
That comment got to me and inspired me to organise this demo. .
We are holding a demonstration on Wednesday March 4th, 2009 at 11:00am
At George Square Glasgow. Everyone invited. “bring yer ain piece”.
Reason:- To highlight the terrible treatment of children and their extended families at the hands of our “out of touch Social Services departments “. and to demand fairer treatment of our children and families and that policies, more in line with the children’s welfare and the public’s wishes are immediately adopted by all Social Service Departments, who now appear to be wholly incompetent or to be acting as a law unto themselves with complete disregard for the children’s “Best Interests ” and the UN convention for the rights of the Child. Further, we ask that the government incorporates the New Proposals by Grandparents Apart UK for greater inclusion for grandparents and wider family members.
Article 8
- States Parties undertake to respect the right of the child to preserve his or her identity, including nationality, name and family relations as recognized by law without unlawful interference.
Heartless SS snatch children, alienate them from their family - usually telling them their family does not want to see them again, then adopt them out without the consent of the children’s rightful parents or custodians.
To increase their field of takers the SS now adopt to gay and single people completely against 90% of the publics wishes, the latest being a girl who was afraid of men was adopted to two gay men. (What will that do to her?) whilst extended family are classed as “not relevant “. This is in complete disregard of the UN Convention, which the United Kingdom has signed but continues to flout with impunity.
A beautiful business plan for commodities, but children and families are not commodities, they are human beings and need to be treated with love, respect and kindness for them to grow into decent citizens and family units.
Children who are separated from their entire extended family lose all stability and identity and are very often low achievers in society end up turning to gangs as a substitute for family comfort and to find the stability that was torn from them by incredible decisions made by Social Workers . They can become the thugs of tomorrow or, worse yet, suffer years of state-sponsored abuse. They lose all respect for anybody. Possibly the reason citizen’s and older people are afraid to go out alone at night.
Last year a petition was lodged with the Scottish parliament petitions by Grandparents Apart UK, asking the petition’s committee to urge the government to investigate if professionals that deal with children were actually working in the child’s best interests or their own. This petition was altered by the Scottish government, to read differently, and closed.
The Government of this country knows full well the feelings of the general public but choose to ignore or cover up the shambolic and criminal state of our Social services and their out of kilter policies. It is no longer time for petitioning and being ignored, when it comes to our children only protesting will get attention.
Cowardice asks the question ‘Is it safe?’ Expediency asks the question ‘Is it politics?’ But conscience asks the question, ‘Is it right?’ And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular but because conscience tells one it is right.”
Contact :-
Jimmy Deuchars
Grandparents Apart UK
22 Alness crescent
Glasgow G52 1PJ
0141 882 5658
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F4L: The concerns addressed by the demo are over the Scottish SS having waged a two-year-long court battle, thereby exhausting the resources of a Scottish couple, the grandparents of two children, a five-year-old boy and his four-year-old sister, in their care.
They spent two years involved in court cases over the children, whose 26-year-old mother is a recovering heroin addict, and finally agreed to adoption when they were faced with mounting legal bills.
The 59-year-old grandfather, who has seven children of his own, told the Daily Telegraph: “There is no way we’d have allowed the children to be adopted if we’d known they were going to a gay couple….(Full Story)
It is a sad and grievously wrong situation when two loving grandparents are being crushed and robbed by the State of the grandchildren whom they were raising in a loving family. There is no excuse for that abuse of power!
This is what it is all about:
“Human rights” laws are Orwellian doublespeak for giving “rights” to some people and taking them away from others.
– Henry Makow Ph.D.; January 28, 2009
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Social pathology: disaster or goldmine?
January 11, 2009 by Walter Schneider.
NZCPR Forum
Opinion piece by Theodore Dalrymple
11 January 08
Whenever we try to assess the meaning and significance of particularly horrible cases, such as that of Nia Glassie in New Zealand or Baby P in Britain (between which there are several parallels), it is important to bear in mind that there is nothing new under the sun, that some people have always done terrible things to others, that some humans have always behaved with the utmost cruelty, that there has never been a golden age of universal benevolence and good will to all men, and that no social system will entirely eliminate the human capacity for evil….(Full Story)
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Help find a missing child, Max-Gian
December 27, 2008 by Walter Schneider.
Thanks to, Marco Al cade, USA, ID, Boise
Marco, as a Father, you speak for 1000’s of us Parents and GrandParents World-Wide.
I hope the large distribution thru the ** Father Friendly Data-Base? ** which your message has gone too, will help find your Son, MaxGian.
At least I know where my Son Javan, now 13, is and see him sometimes.
However my powerlessness tears me a part.
Knowing and seeing him slip into his Mothers ways, will and subtle Parent Alienation attempts, is little conciliation now that the checks and balances caused thru ** Equal Parenting ** have been torn away.
To have the New Zealand Govt, her Church, and many in the NZ Mens and Fathers movement, support her all the way as the bringing him to ManHood by his Father is steadily eroded, all caused by MSD-WINZ (NZ Social Welfare) refusing to recognise our ** Equal Parenting ** Orders
Go http://rationshed2.blogspot.com and the so called NZ Mens and Fathers movement having no teeth and/courage to Stand-UP against destructive NZFamily Law and Social Policy.
When the Governments of the World enshrine real ** Equal Parenting ** deep into their Family Law and Social Policy we will see a lot less of this USE and ABUSE of our Children
Sign the ** Equal Parenting ** Petition
Go http://petitionthem.com/default.asp?sect=detail&pet=4275
Up on the Ration Shed Communiqué
Marco, please join using this link: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/rationshed
Post NEWS of those working toward Righting the Wrongs of Family Law and Social Policy direct to the group for World-Wide viewing
Please remember to include the link at the very top. to any article as proof of authenticity and the country of origin of the article far left of subject line for easy indexing/searching in the Communiqué.
Onward – Jim
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Go - http://www.2news.tv/news/36728109.html
Confusing Christmas for father with missing son

Story Created: Dec 25, 2008 at 2:03 PM MST
By Adam Rodriguez
BOISE - Christmas wasn’t the same for Boise father Marco Al cade. He was surrounded by family, but his son MaxGian is nowhere to be found.
“There’s a hole in my heart for sure, and there’s a hole in my life,” Al cade said.
You can’t walk into Marco’s home and not know a little boy lives there. Pictures of MaxGian’s smiling face are on all the walls, his bedroom is decked out in Boise State blue and orange, and there’s brightly-wrapped presents under the tree with the seven-year-old’s name on them.
“It’s hard, it just doesn’t feel like Christmas. It just doesn’t feel the same,” Al cade said.”
Marco last saw MaxGian the day before Thanksgiving. The boy’s mother, Margaret ‘Micah’ Dunbar picked him up under shared custody and disappeared. State and federal authorities have been trying to track Dunbar down; Marco believes his former wife took MaxGian to Mexico . But it’s the not knowing - anything - that has Marco tied in knots.
“Some minutes I’m fine,” Marco said. “The next, you can hardly stand there without crying.”
It looks like Christmas at Marco Al cade’s home. There’s a red and white stocking with MaxGian’s name and presents that won’t be opened. For an overwhelmed father, it’s a confusing Christmas.
“It doesn’t feel like Christmas,” Marco said. “That’s not where my mind is. My mind is on my son and wanting to know he’s safe and wanting him home.”
Marco believes his son is in Mexico because he has MaxGian’s passport and Mexico is the only country kids can go to without that documentation.
MaxGian is 4 feet tall and about 55 pounds with brown hair and blue eyes.
Family members have set up a WEBSITE dedicated to helping find MaxGian.
Boise Police says Margaret “Maika” Dunbar-Al calde may also may go by the alias Margaret Sanchez-Dunbar.
Anyone with information is asked to call Crime Stoppers at 343-COPS.
MaxGian also has a page set up on the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children website. To visit that page click HERE
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Find Max-Gian (Debajo en Español)
My son (Max-Gian) and my ex wife (Maika) are missing, and I am asking for YOUR help to find them.
I last saw my son when I dropped him off at 8:35am on the 26th of November at his Elementary School in Boise, Idaho.
His mother picked him up from the school at approx. 1:00pm the same day. At 7:30pm he called me from the LAX airport where he expected his older brother to pick them up. The older brother attends Biola University in La Mirada, California.
My son told me he was going to visit his brother and then visit his friend Joshua in Nevada. My son told me he loved me and had to go.
They never visited his friend in Nevada.
This was my last contact with my boy.
It is with both pain and determination I ask for your help to share this information with everyone you know and help us bring my boy home.
Please take a few minutes to look at the pictures, note the details about them, and share, share, share this with everyone you know.
Thank you!
Marco Al calde
How Will I Recognize Them?
Description of MaxGian: Age: 07 yrs, Height: 4’ 0’’ (1.22 m), Weight: 55 lbs (25 kg), Hair: Brown, Eyes: Blue)
He is very active and extremely social when in a comfortable environment. He will likely cling closely to his mother when in a new or uncomfortable environment. He likes to play all sports, ride skateboards, play with toy light sabers and swords, assemble legos, dress up in costumes, and play video games.
He will refer to his mother as “mama”. His favorite foods are chicken tacos; taquitos; chicken strips with French fries; pasta with olive oil and salt; green peas; raw carrots, and pancakes.
Description of Maika: Age: 58 yrs, Height: 5’ 1’’ (1.55 m), Weight: 110 lbs (50 kg), Hair: Black, Eyes: Brown)
She may be perceived as being shy or socially awkward. She is very cautious in new environments. Maika is strongly religious (Christian, non-denominational) and believes she is acting with God’s direction. It is likely she will visit one or more churches or Christian groups seeking spiritual and emotional support. She will gravitate to people willing to empathize with and help her. She has, and will express, very strong opinions about how people should live their lives. She will listen solely to Christian music. Maika is doting and controlling of MaxGian and will likely keep him very close to her. Maika is in good physical condition and if possible, will run and/or visit a gym daily. She is knowledgeable in nutrition, Pilates, and typically carries a wide range of supplements. She eats lots of different fruits and avoids bread (removing it from sandwiches). She will drive a small car or wagon. She strongly prefers warm tropical weather and speaks Spanish, Italian, French, German, and of course English.
Where Should We Look?
General Areas: Southern California (especially San Ysidro), Arizona, Hawaii, Florida, Mexico, Caribbean Islands and Central/South America.
Specific Places: Churches, Gyms, Health Food or Supplement stores, transportation terminals.
How You Can Help?
Review this web site information carefully as YOU may have already seen them.
Forward a link of this web site to everyone you know, especially to people in the target areas.
Sign up for email updates so we can keep current on the status of this case.
Encourage the media in your area to air this story.
Donate if you can to help (see the “How You Can Help” Page).
Links to Current Headlines:
http://www.2news.tv/news/35836259.html
http://www.ktvb.com/news/localnews/stories/ktvbn-dec0908-kidnapped_boy.491696a0.html
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/28165832/
http://www.nwcn.com/statenews/idaho/stories/NW_121008IDN_kidnapped_boy_SW.4cece01b.html
http://www.examiner.com/r-4348212~Boise_mother_suspected_of_kidnapping_7_year_old_boy.html
En Español
Mi hijo (Máximo-Gian) y mi ex esposa (Maika) son que falta y yo están pidiendo SU ayuda encontrarlos. Vi por último a mi hijo cuando lo caí apagado en el 8:35 el 26 de noviembre en su escuela primaria en Boise , Idaho . Su madre lo escogió para arriba de la escuela en aproximadamente el 1:00 P.M. el mismo día. En el 7:30 P.M. él me llamó del aeropuerto de LAX en donde él esperó que su más viejo hermano los coja. El más viejo hermano atiende a la universidad de Biola en el La Mirada , California . Mi hijo me dijo que él iba a visitar a su hermano y después a visitar a su amigo Joshua en Nevada . Mi hijo me dijo que él me amó y que tuvo que ir. Nunca visitaron a su amigo en Nevada . Éste era mi contacto pasado con mi muchacho. Está con dolor y determinación que pido su ayuda compartir esta información con cada uno usted sabe y que nos ayudo a traer mi hogar del muchacho. Tarde por favor algunos minutos para mirar los cuadros, observar los detalles sobre ellos, y la parte, parte, comparte esto con cada uno que usted sabe.
¡Gracias!
Marco Al calde
¿Cómo los reconoceré?
Descripción de MaxGian: Edad: 07 años, altura: 1.22 m, peso: 25 kilogramos, pelo: Brown, ojos: Azul)
Él es mismo active y extremadamente social cuando en un ambiente cómodo. Él se aferrará probablemente de cerca a su madre cuando en un nuevo o incómodo ambiente. Él tiene gusto de jugar todos los deportes, paseo anda en monopatín, juego con los sables de la luz del juguete y las espadas, montan legos, se visten para arriba en trajes, y juegos video del juego. Él referirá a su madre como “mama”. Sus alimentos preferidos son & del tacos de pollo; taquitos, tiras del pollo con las patatas fritas, pastas con el & del aceite de oliva; sal, guisantes verdes, zanahorias crudas, y crepes.
Descripción de Maika: Edad: 58 años, altura: 1.55 m, peso: 50 kilogramos, pelo: Negro, ojos: Brown)
Ella puede ser percibida como siendo tímida o social torpe. Ella es muy cautelosa en nuevos ambientes. Maika es fuertemente religiosa (cristiano, non-denominational) y cree que ella está actuando con la dirección de dios. Es probable ella visitará una o más iglesias o grupos cristianos que buscan la ayuda espiritual y emocional. Ella gravitará a la gente que quiere empathize con y ayudarle. Ella tiene, y expresará, las opiniones muy fuertes sobre cómo la gente debe vivir sus vidas. Ella escuchará solamente la música cristiana. Maika doting y está controlando de MaxGian, y probablemente lo mantendrá muy cercano a ella. Maika está en buenas condiciones físicas y si es posible, funcionará con y/o visitará un diario de la gimnasia. Ella está bien informada en nutrición, Pilates, y lleva típicamente una amplia gama de suplementos. Ella come las porciones de diversas frutas y evita el pan (que la quita de los emparedados). Ella conducirá un pequeño coche o carro. Ella prefiere fuertemente tiempo tropical caliente y habla español, italiano, francés, alemán, y por supuesto inglés.
¿Dónde debemos mirar?
Áreas generales: California meridional (especialmente San Ysidro), Arizona , Hawaii, la Florida, México, islas caribeñas, y central/Suramérica.
Lugares específicos: Al macenes de las iglesias, de Gyms, de la comida sana o del suplemento, terminales del transporte.
¿Cómo usted puede ayudar?
Repase esta información del Web site cuidadosamente como USTED pudo haber vistolos ya.
Remita un acoplamiento de este Web site a cada uno que usted sabe, especialmente a la gente en las áreas de blanco.
Firme para arriba para las actualizaciones del email así que podemos guardar la corriente en el estado de este caso.
Anime a los medios en su área que ventilen esta historia.
Done si usted puede ayudar (véase el ” Cómo usted puede Help” Página).
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Destruction of the livelihood of a Father and his children
September 15, 2008 by Walter Schneider.
In the best interest of the child
From the mail box of Fathers for Life:
To the judge in my latest child-custody and -access hearing:
Sir(s)
This past week I have had to attend court for the CSA [the UK Child Support Agency] and Family Court for redefined contact and, I might add, for the last time! You can only push someone so far. So, congratulations, the system has rendered me bankrupt, insists I still pay and pay, but “Too bad Mr. Farmer you are not to see your children who tantalizingly pass your door each day on their way to school.”
Far from being a poor, violent or uncaring father I have done all in my power to offer my children a seamless path from broken family to the security of a second family home and the stability of this being located close to the former family home and at an equal distance to both schools; this at great personal difficulty to me at the age of 50, to have to start again from scratch and thankfully with the support of my wife and family.
Yet the same family courts who granted access to me in 2004 will still allow the mother with her sickly smug smile to wield the big stick and say NO to contact. Are the children’s interests being served?
It is the courts not being able to enforce the perfectly good order designed to offer the same level of stability whilst the children are so young, and until they reach an age when they could decide which parent to be with.
For me, my children have reached that age, but the controlling mother will not release them from her shackles and not even allow them to call on the phone or call in for tea on the occasional evening after school for a few hours, just to mend the bridges the mother has broken.
That is the fundamental flaw with this law that allows the mother to abuse it, yet not to be reprimanded. In fact, it empowers the mother to do just as she wishes, whilst ‘cocking a snoot’ at the judge, at the social workers, but above all at the children she is meant to be acting as responsible carer for.
Consider the next time you ridicule a ‘Batman’ Character that he is taking his plight out of the family environment, that what the mother does is from within and what long term effect that might have on vulnerable children.
If my children return to me in a few years, when in their late teens and say, look Dad, I have been stealing or have been involved in drugs or violence, would it not have been better for me to be there for them now, to prevent them from getting into trouble in the first place and to be there to answer any query my children have, no matter how trivial it may seem — just to show there is someone with an answer?
My own father never said ‘I don’t know’, if he could not answer my worries immediately. He would not stop till he could, and that kind of reassurance means a lot when you are young and especially today, with all the peer and media pressure the kids are under on a day to day basis.
If this appalling law was reviewed and put right today, it will still take a generation to put right the social ills the law fosters right now. Given that the family-law courts’ decisions are made inviolable, there is no point in having a judge sitting in court in the first place!
The reality is, there are some who have to live with the heartache, knowing there is nothing more to be done, the children are lost, the home is lost, the childhood is lost, you will never reclaim those lost years, and the memories will not be made.
The pain of that will be with you evermore, and any future contact will be a grim reminder of what was lost at a time you could have saved it.
Now is that time, but I cannot stop the passage of time, and the happy memories I have of the time with my father will not be continued on in my own children. I have done nothing wrong. I am not a monster but a loving caring Dad, and the system has stolen the opportunity to help my children through their formative years into adulthood.
Dave Farmer
170 Winford Drive Broxbourne Herts EN10 6PN England
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8 years in prison for plot to steal baby (and for kidnapping)
August 28, 2008 by Walter Schneider.
Missouri woman gets 8 years in prison for plot to steal baby
Yahoo News
Wed Aug 27, 2:53 PM
By The Associated Press
INDEPENDENCE, Mo. - A 20-year-old woman who kidnapped a pregnant teenager she met online in a foiled plot steal her unborn baby has been sentenced to eight years in prison.
Lauren Gash, of Odessa, pleaded guilty last month to kidnapping, assault and felonious restraint in the July 2007 attack on Amanda Howard, then 18, inside a Blue Springs motel room. Gash was sentenced Tuesday to eight years each on the first two counts and seven years on the third. The sentences will run concurrently….(Full Story)
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Missing Child
August 28, 2008 by Walter Schneider.
My jugsforjustice website (link right below) post includes two videos
Another Emily Missing, Have You Seen Her?
August 27th, 2008

MISSING PERSON!
Emily Nialyn Manion Machado (click name for more info)
CALL Sheirly Dworkin @ 312-759-8080, Father’s Lawyer
Emily Nialyn Manion Machado
Missing From: Berwyn, IL
Date Missing: March 28, 2008
Date of Birth: August 24, 2005
Age: 3
Sex: Female
Height: 3′0?
Weight: 25 lbs
Eyes: Light Blue
Hair: blond. Wears her hair down mostly. It’s curly when down but when its up, her hair is straight
Race: White/Hispanic
Emily has 2 pierced ears.
CIRCUMSTANCES
Emily was taken by her mother who fled the country with her. Emily may not be ajusting to well where ever she is.
E-Mail The Family - Show them your support: findemilymachado@ yahoo.com
Find Emily Machado myspace: myspace.com/ daddyandemily
E-Mail the Father’s sister: melissamanionjoshua @yahoo.com
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www.teristoddard. org
www.sharedparenting works.org
www.jugsforjustice. org
When we accept tough jobs as a challenge to our ability and wade into
them with joy and enthusiasm, miracles can happen. — Arland Gilbert
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The Virtual Child
August 5, 2008 by Walter Schneider.
The last article identified here states that “Viola Trevino’s plea bargain begins the final chapter of a case that made national headlines.” That statement is most likely not true, because Shelly and Steve Barreras have not yet and most likely never will be reimbursed for the $20,000 in child support they paid for a child that never was. Yet, that is not on account of inability to pay by the major culprit in the case of one of the worst cases of known paternity fraud ever aided and abetted by a criminal, in this case the State of New Mexico.
The information on this page was copied from the website of Fathers for Life, from the web page that contains advice to men.
…The lesson to be learned from these stories is that if you are in Court to dispute child support obligations or custody issues, first of all make sure that the children are yours; and ideally make sure of that long before the case winds up in court. Do it right after the birth of the child. Still, that won’t help much in a case like the following one.
Woman created a “virtual child”, a child that never existed in reality but did exist on forged documents, still, the alleged father had to pay
…first wife Viola Trevino gave new meaning to Paternity Fraud when she created a “virtual daughter” based on a DNA sample from her ex-husband’s adult daughter. With the help of accomplices, she created a Child that Never Existed but that came complete with a Birth Certificate, a Social Security Card, a Medicare Card, and a judicial claim for child support that reached the sum of $20,000.
MAKING A DIFFERENCE - ONE BILLBOARD AT A TIME
By Gordon E. Finley, Ph.D.
November 16, 2006
NewsWithViews.com
Full StorySee also an earlier related story:
Agency culpable in child-support scam
by Wendy McElroy, Dec. !7, 2004
Last week, Viola Trevino carried her 5-year-old “daughter” into an Albuquerque (search) court to satisfy a judge’s demand to produce the child.
Complications arose.
One: Trevino had kidnapped the child moments before to pass off as her daughter.
Two: the “real” daughter never existed.
Three: the “father” and ex-husband Steve Barreras had paid $20,000 in child support.
Four: the system finally noticed Trevino was lying. (Full Story at foxnew.com)
Update 2008 08 01:
KOAT.com
Woman Accused Of Creating Fake Child Makes Plea Deal
Viola Trevino Enters Pleas For 13 Of 24 Felony Counts
August 1, 2008
The Albuquerque woman accused of creating a fictitious child to obtain government benefits and child support appeared in court Friday.
Viola Trevino’s plea bargain begins the final chapter of a case that made national headlines.
Trevino is accused of faking the existence of a child, then bilking the government out of thousands in benefits and her former husband out of tens of thousands in child support….
The plot included fictitious DNA tests and even a baby taken off the street for an appearance in family court….(Full Story)
Note: It will be interesting to see whether Steve Barreras and his wife Shelly will be getting the $20,000 back (with interest, of course) from the State of New Mexico that the State extorted from them for a child that Steve and Shelly [and the State of New Mexico] knew right from the start he could not have fathered. Steve had undergone a vasectomy before he could possibly have fathered the child he was supposed to have fathered. — WHS
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U.S. State Department Behind International Child Abduction Scandal
June 15, 2008 by Walter Schneider.
MensNewsDaily.com
Teri Stoddard
U.S. State Department Behind International Child Abduction Scandal
June 14, 2008 at 4:36 pm
Karl Hindle has been working tirelessly for five years and spent more than four hundred thousand dollars investigating his daughter’s illegal abduction to the U.S. What he has uncovered is deplorable. The paper trail shows the United States government is in the business of illegal baby snatching and harboring criminals….(Full Story)
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MISSING CHILD
May 4, 2008 by Walter Schneider.
“This message arrived from France. Please circulate it throughout the world. One never knows ……
Please look at the photo below [shown at right
], read the mother’s message and circulate it to all the people you know.
‘My 13-year old daughter, Ashley Flores, disappeared two weeks ago.
It may be that if everyone who sees this message forwards it on, someone may see this child.
This is how a child from Steven Point was found, by circulating her photograph and by even showing it on television.
Internet is circulated even overseas, South America, Canada etc.
Please forward this message to all your contacts.
Please God, this child will be found.
I implore everyone to please circulate this picture as best possible.
It is not too late.
PLEASE HELP US!
If any one can supply any information, please contact me at :
Included is a photograph of my daughter. All your prayers will be so precious!’
It will only take 2 minutes to circulate this message.
If it was your child you would do everything possible to obtain help!!”
___________________________
Questo messaggio arriva dalla Francia. Fate circolare in tutto il mondo. Non si
sa mai…..
Per favore guardate la foto qui sotto [indicato alla destra
],
leggete il messaggio della madre e fate circolare a tutte le persone di vostra conoscenza….Mia figlia di 13 anni, Ashley Flores, est scomparsa da due settimane.
Può succedere che se tutti fanno girare questo messaggio, qualcuno vedrà questa bambina.
Così facendo una bambina scomparsa di Steven Point è stata ritrovata anche facendo circolare la sua foto alla televisione.
Internet circola anche oltre-mare, in Sud America, Canada ecc.
Per favore fate inoltrate questo messaggio a tutte le persone della vostra rubrica.
Grazie a Dio e a tutto ciò che di spirituale esiste, questa bambina sarà ritrovata.
Chiedo a tutti, supplico tutti, per favore, di far girare il più possibile questa immagine.
Non è ancora troppo tardi.
PER FAVORE AIUTATECI
Chiunque sia in grado di dare delle informazioni al riguardo, per favore mi contatti :
Includo la foto di mia figlia . Tutte le vostre preghiere saranno preziose !!!
Sono sufficienti 2 minuti per far circolare il messaggio.
Se si trattasse di vostro figlio farete l’impossibile per ottenere dell’aiuto !!!
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], read the mother’s message and circulate it to all the people you know.