“Our Rainbow Family” - “Operation baby-making”

And an operation it is — far more difficult and far more expensive than the traditional way to which virtually all of us (98 percent or more) have become accustomed.

Check essentialbaby.com

We had fantastic support through our local IVF clinic, (SIVF Canberra) and were the first lesbian couple at the clinic at that time to request using eggs from one woman to use in the other. We did it this way for a number of reasons: Tanya would be more included in the process and would be the biological mother of our daughter, and I did not want to pass on any autoimmune diseases to our child, as many women in my family (father’s side) have lupus, thyroid problems or other autoimmune diseases.

It was not considered surrogacy or anything other than a couple trying to have a baby together. We were very lucky that it worked first go and we even had three embryos left to use in the future.

The “couple” made an attempt to have another baby:

Last month we started the process for adding to our family, using one of our frozen embryos. Unfortunately it didn’t take, so we will have a break over Christmas and try again next year. We have two embryos left and will put them back in one at a time.

I have no information on the costs of IVF procedures in Australia. It all depends on success rates:

IVF success [in the US] rates are much higher than shown here for women under age 35

National averages SART and CDC Data Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology Centers for Disease Control
Year	Percentage of IVF cycles resulting in a live birth
1985	5.3
1987	8.3
1989	11.3
1991	12.9
1993	15.8
1995	18.7
1997	24.0
1999	25.2
2001	27.0
2003	28.3
2005	27.8

Source

How much does IVF cost?
IVF cost per single cycle (without ICSI) with all monitoring included Medications not included	Cost of IVF	$8,800
IVF with ICSI cost per single cycle with all monitoring included ($1200 for ICSI) Medications not included	Cost of IVF with ICSI	$10,000
$1400 discount given for the IVF stimulation monitoring done out of town (or if monitoring cost covered by insurance)

 

Optional IVF medications cost package plan All IVF medications provided by our clinic	Additional cost $2700 per fresh cycle
Restrictions: BMI - body mass index (a measure of obesity) must be under 33 Minimum of 8 resting antral follicles - total from both ovaries No previous IVF cycles cancelled for lack of response to medication
Otherwise, meds are purchased by the couple from a pharmac

Source

It’s not cheap, neither if the individual has to pay nor if “it’s covered by insurance” and we all pay, but what price is happiness for a couple or three new parents, right? Who knows. If the couple works at it long enough, and if neither the money nor the will run out, and if the ability exists, in the end there will be a baby who,

…will grow up to be a doctor, plumber or public servant; gay like her mums or straight like her dad; a wrestler like her uncle, an adult entertainer like her aunt (we are not voting for this one!) or a paramedic like her mummy’s cousin.

It appears that nothing is mentioned about the half of the child’s abilities and inclinations that come from her “dad’s” side, but one thing is certain, if the child is a girl, she will not be a sperm donor, not yet, anyway.

–Walter

Update June 7, 2008:

Current total fertility rates (TFRs) for countries in the world - Rank Order.  The web page accessible through the preceding link lists the rank order from highest to lowest, with a TFR of about 2.2 indicating a stable population. The TFR required to maintain a given country’s population varies a little from country to country, depending on the life expectancy for the average resident in that country. (Source: CIA World Factbook)

As of June 2008, the CIA World Factbook showed 104 countries (generally the richest and most developed) to have TFRs of less than 2.2.  In other words, in those countries the population is in the process of shrinking. (Related Articles at Fathers for Life)

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